Your comment on change resonate deeply, shedding light on the interplay between environment, motivation, and personal transformation. It’s noteworthy how you highlighted the often negative perception of “change.” Indeed, as humans, we tend to cling to the familiar, often viewing change with apprehension because of the comfort found in our established behaviors and surroundings. This comfort can sometimes stifle growth or keep us in harmful situations.
However, as you insightfully highlighted, internal motivation holds a crucial significance. Each individual possesses an intrinsic power to transform, contingent on the strength of their desire and commitment. While the external environment can act as a catalyst or inhibitor, it’s the internal will and motivation that truly ignites the flame of transformation. Your example about overcoming depression is both impactful and relevant. It emphasizes that with the right blend of internal drive and a supportive environment, one can overcome even the most daunting challenges.
I am a student. I believe with the proper incentive, people can change. Someone who others might consider a nuisance might lack the incentive to change due to the fact everyone just tolerates their behavior and they have no consequences for their bad behavior. Meanwhile, someone may not support the concept of homosexuality, might change their views when their child comes out and the parents wish to maintain a loving and respectful relationship. Meanwhile, in some cases, people will seek change regardless of their benefit. For example, a diagnosed narcissist will seek out a therapist to identify their toxic habits and see how their actions impact others, even though they seemingly have little to gain. We are constantly changing as humans as we live, gaining more wisdom with time and thus more understanding of the world and each other. Changing who you are at the core is possible, with a lot of work and the proper incentive, but also with time.
I am a student at WCCCD and I believe a person’s nature does change throughout a lifetime. I myself have changed throughout my lifetime; and have witnessed family, friends, classmates, and colleagues change over time. After High School I attended Wayne State University and majored in criminal Justice all while starting my very first job in healthcare. Overtime, Nursing chose me and after a few years I changed my major to Nursing. I initially wanted to become a lawyer, because they make a great living, and I wanted to study law to understand and learn more about how my father was killed. Overtime that changed due tot the field I was working in, the passion I learned that I had caring for people and fell in love with Nursing. Therefore I know our human nature changes overtime, because it was in my human nature to attend college for law, but I ended up changing that overtime. We change in many ways, overtime as we grow older, rather it be our looks, our physical physique, our personalities, or careers, we change every day, its our human nature.
I am a student at Wayne County Community College, this is my first year attending. I think people can change because that’s the basic part of life rather it’s your mindset, your energy towards others etc. People grow, some go to therapy to change their outlook on life, relationships, etc. Some people work on themselves by themselves rather its writing down small goals to accomplish one big goal. Over the course of time, we all change and grow. I am changing and it’s for the better, sometimes you must fail to make changes in your life, sometimes you must take risks to change what’s around you. If you want something different in life, you have to do things differently.
I am a student at Wayne County Community College. People can change their personality due to various external influences. For instance, people dealing with terminal illnesses tend to become more religious than before. Similarly, going through college education, for instance, might open up a person’s mind to become more liberal and start questioning religion. Actually, the aspect of people changing their behavior and personality usually occurs a lot. A healthy friendship, for instance, might end up in jeopardy due to factors such as one party changing who they are, plus their role in the relationship. Nature, in my opinion, has a major state in how and when one would change. There are various conventional changes that a human being undergoes due to age. For instance, some claim that at 24 years old, men become more mature and goal oriented. In this sense, you might realize that the person you knew in a certain way has completely changed. A kind person might also conceal their kindness upon realization that they were being taken advantage. The bottom-line, therefore, is that people can and will eventually change who they are.
I am a student. I believe that everyone is capable of change. In saying that I think that there are many ways you can change. One of these ways is unconscious change. If a restaurant changes the ingredients that they use. You may not realize why you suddenly dislike food you have always liked. If the music on the radio is very positive, you may start to feel better about your day. These changes in mood/behavior have nothing to do with something you did. They have more to do with changes in your environment. Another way is conscious change. I believe these are the things that will NOT change unless you try to change. If someone finds alcohol to be a comfort to them, it may be very hard to give it up unless you see the negative impacts on your life. And even if they do see the impacts they may not care. That is until they are given a reason that is bigger than their addiction. Examples of that may be a career, partner, or child.
I am a student.
I do believe people can change, but it is not something that can come easily. I think it is very hard for a person to really truly change, because the person has to really want it. It takes lots of time and patience and energy to change and I think because of the amount of work is involved, not a lot of people can actually go through it. But, if you dedicate yourself completely to it, you can change. Some of the work is new surroundings, like new people and places. Going to a new place can be anywhere like living in a new country or just finding a new job. New people, like being around more positive people, can change you a lot as well. If you start to believe in yourself and your ability to change can help a great amount as well.
I ‘am a student and I believe people most definitely can change, I believe that overtime maturity comes and if you want to change overtime change will come. It’s really up to the individual, I also believe that a person can change without even noticing that there changing. This can either be in a good or a bad way depending on the situation. For example, after I had my first child, I noticed how much my thinking process changed I no longer moved a certain way. I didn’t even notice until someone called it out and said how much I had changed since I had my daughter. At first, I was worried was it in a good way or bad way but, I was told I was a lot more serious, but I needed to be. I was now responsible for a whole other person. I believe having kids is one of the most life changing experiences in life.
It’s intriguing how our loyalties and beliefs can be so deeply rooted, yet they have the potential to shift dramatically when faced with personal experiences. This highlights the interplay between our cognitive understanding and emotional connections. Many of us stand firm in our beliefs until a situation directly affects us or someone we deeply care about. The example you gave about a parent’s perception of homosexuality changing when their child comes out is touching. It demonstrates that, often, our loyalty to personal connections, especially to loved ones, can outweigh longstanding beliefs.
Your point about the diagnosed narcissist is particularly insightful. Sometimes the incentive isn’t just material or tangible benefit, but rather an intrinsic desire to grow and understand oneself better. This goes to show that while external incentives can be powerful motivators, internal motivations, driven by self-awareness and the desire for self-improvement, can also play a significant role in initiating change.
Your comments remind me of the beautiful unpredictability of life. Sometimes our passions choose us, rather than the other way around. Your journey from aspiring to study law to embracing the world of nursing is a deeply resonant example of how personal experiences can reshape our perspectives and aspirations. Many times, what we believe to be our destiny changes as we mature and gain more exposure to the world around us.
It’s true, as you pointed out, that we aren’t just changing physically; our emotional landscapes, priorities, and life goals also undergo transformations. Life’s unpredictability often challenges our preconceived notions, and it’s in those moments that we realize the flexibility and adaptability of our nature.
I connect with your comments about failure and risks. They are, indeed, often the catalysts that drive change. Failure teaches resilience, adaptability, and instills a deeper understanding of oneself, while risks opens up horizons we might never have known otherwise.
Congratulations to you for embarking on this journey of education. Your time at WCCCD will undoubtedly be filled with many more realizations, changes, and opportunities for growth. Embrace them all, for they are the building blocks of the person you are becoming.
Life’s twists and turns, both big and small, shape us in countless ways. As we move through different phases, our viewpoints shift, and mold based on what we’ve been through.
Your time at WCCCD seems to have given you a deeper perspective. I’ve always believed that education isn’t just about textbooks; it’s about growing as a person, challenging our beliefs, and seeing the world with fresh eyes. Just like how major life events or even slight changes in our friendships can make us reassess things we’ve always believed in.
The whole idea of men supposedly maturing at 24 is fascinating. While society has these benchmarks, we all grow at our own pace, don’t we?
Your point about kind-hearted people sometimes pulling back because they’ve been hurt in the past really hits home for me. Life can make us build walls, but it’s all part of our journey.
At the end of the day, we’re all changing, growing, and adapting. It’s just how life goes. Some people might find it hard to come to terms with our changes, but that’s all part of our personal journey.
I am a student. Yes, I do believe people can change even against their own human nature. The main way I believe people change is from an experience that changes their life. This can be from a car crash to a fight with a loved one. It changes the way you act by becoming a better person and the way you act in society. This could have been caused by drinking or doing drugs, so with these experiences it will show you the outcome of your bad habit. This will cause the person to change their ways for a better life for themselves and for an even better life for their loved ones. This shows that it does not take much to change a person and it is definitely possible to change the way that you act.
Life has a way of throwing curveballs, and sometimes, those unexpected moments, like an accident or a big argument, can serve as a wake-up call. They can push someone to reevaluate their choices, especially if those choices have been influenced by things like alcohol or drugs. It’s like these intense experiences hold up a mirror and force you to confront the consequences of your actions. And often, it’s love and care for the people around us that drive that desire to be better. So yeah, I agree with you – even if it seems out of character, people can and do change, sometimes in big ways.
Life’s experiences, especially the big ones like becoming a parent, have a way of reshaping us, sometimes without us even realizing it. As you mentioned, maturity naturally evolves over time and it’s often our circumstances, choices, and responsibilities that mold that growth. When you bring a child into the world, it’s like your entire perspective shifts. It’s not just about you anymore; every decision you make impacts another life. It’s no surprise that people might see changes in you, even if you didn’t notice them yourself. Kids definitely have a way of making us see the bigger picture and adjust our priorities. It’s incredible how life can surprise us with these moments of transformation.